Men! Your lover wants an orgasm during your lovemaking! Though she may not want an orgasm every time you have sex, she certainly isn’t going to be too happy if sex ends when you’ve ejaculated, rolled over and gone to sleep! The best way to ensure her sexual pleasure is to make sure she’s had at least one orgasm before you come. There are several sexual positions which are more likely to make this happen. So, without further ado, here’s our suggested list of positions that will let her get the orgasm she craves, while making sure you don’t miss out on your orgasm! First of all, if you haven’t tried the woman on top position, then check it out! Many women like having the upper hand, so to speak, when it comes to making love - it’s a position that permits them to move in the way that gives them the greatest chance of an orgasm, whether that’s through stimulation of the clitoris or G spot stimulation. She can move around much more in this position, and because she’s in control of her movements, she’s likely to get some orgasmic satisfaction. She can either rub her clitoris against the shaft of your penisgrind it against your body, or lean back or forwards so that her vagina gets pressure it needs to give her pleasure. If you can last long enough before you ejaculate, this is the position that gives her the greatest chance of reaching orgasm during intercourse. If she wants to increase the feelings in her vagina, she can squeeze your penis with her PC muscles: that will increase your pleasure, and it will certainly add to the pressure on her G spot - and most likely increase the chances of her having an orgasm and also ejaculating when she reaches orgasm. (Female ejaculation is a new idea for many men - but basically, if her vagina is stimulated for long enough, and in the right way, when she achieves her reaches orgasm, the fluid that collects in glands around her vagina will squirt out during the muscular contractions of her orgasm.) And another advantage of woman on top sex is that you can enjoy the sight of her breasts, and caress them as she moves on top of you. Of course, if she’s facing away from you, you can see her buttocks as she moves. But a lot of men find this position, (when she faces away from the man,)uncomfortable because it bends the penis too much. And what next? Well, the good ol’ man on top position. But before you groan, think again. Many women love missionary position sex, because it allows for those deep moments of intimacy and connection that women adore. And men like the position too! Sex in the man on top position, with her legs bent upwards, her knees near her chest, gives you really deep penetration and the chance to thrust deeply and powerfully. Even better, if you have an erection which curves upwards, as many do, then sex in the man on top position will allow your penis to stimulate her G spot as you make love. Combine this with a little clitoral play, perhaps by placing a vibrator between you both as you make love, and you have the best of all possible worlds for her! As a refinement, you can stop thrusting your hips, and move your hips in a circular pattern. The penis moves in a very interesting way in the vagina! This sex position is called Churning The Butter in Tantric sex circles, and it can send her into multiple, ongoing orgasm. Another variation of man on top sex is to try eight shallow thrusts followed by one deep one. The shallow thrust should just shimmer against her G spot, so don’t go more than a couple of inches into her vagina when you try this routine. Another good idea for her to reach orgasm is to have her sit upon a table or, for that matter, any other surface where you can enter her vagina as you stand in front of her with her legs apart. making love in this position is great because you can thrust into her while you embrace and fondle each other. To increase the chances of her reaching orgasm, you can give her a little extra clitoral attention. In any case, in this position your regular thrusting may catch her G spot in the way needed to bring her to a rapid climax. It’s also a lot more stimulating to be having sex in an unusual position and somewhere other than the bedroom. The added arousal can help take you both to a quicker and more powerful orgasm. Next, there’s a very loving sex position known as the “spoons” position. She lies on her side with her back towards you, while you enter her from behind. This is a very easy position to get into, particularly if she lifts her upper leg a little bit while you push into her. The best thing about this sexual position is how good it feels - for both of you. You can reach around her, caress her breasts, and kiss the back of her neck and her back, while she (or you) can play with her clitoris. Another great addition to this position is the chance to make love on your sides as you face each other. The best way to get into the facing side by side sex position is by starting from the man on top, ask her to lift her knees towards her chest and then roll over onto your sides (make sure you agree which way to roll first!). You can keep going for much longer in this position before you come, as there’s much less pressure on your penis. And, with the right amount of loving attention, and perhaps a helping rub on or around her clitoris, she will reach orgasm before you do, so you can have the pleasure of being triggered into your own orgasm by feeling her coming around your penis inside her vagina. And lastly, what about the thrill of the rear entry sex position? This primal position is many men’s favorite sex position, being so rude and raunchy, and men often come quickly. But lots of women like it too, and there are plenty of reasons why. It allows deep penetration, it permits her to express her sexuality to the full, letting her thrust and ride her lover as she wishes, and, above all, it hits her G spot! Rear entry sex is very primal, particularly if you hold her hips and direct her movements. If she raises or lowers her hips, you’ll get a lot of variation in sensation - so you can find the precise position that gives you both the greatest pleasure. There you are, then: a series of sexual positions which give you a chance of the woman’s orgasm during sex. But if you’re the man, and these positions don’t help her reach orgasm on their own, don’t worry. Make sure sure she has her orgasm from oral sex or a hand job before you enter her, and you’ll both be abe to enjoy sex to the full. Orgasm during intercourse feels great, but remember there are plenty of other ways of getting orgasmic satisfaction! Rod Phillips advises on sexual issues at Sex and Love.